Cold Reading

Name: Cold Reading
ISBN: 9789864178575

Hiroyuki IshiiCommonwealth Publishing2007

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ISBN: 9789864178575

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Summary

Cold Reading is the signature work of Hiroshi Ishii, a Japanese psychological counselor and personal motivation expert. Originally published as Why Are Fortune Tellers Trusted?, the Chinese edition was translated by Yue Yizhen and published by CommonWealth. "Cold reading" refers to a set of verbal and psychological techniques that create the illusion that "you really understand me," thereby building trust in an extremely short time. The book points out that fortune tellers, salespeople, and diviners who appear to "see through people" often rely on observing clothing, demeanor, body language, and conversational details, combined with descriptions that sound precise but actually apply to a very wide range of people. Through the Barnum effect and selective memory, they lead the other person to "fill in" the information themselves. The book begins with the psychological mechanisms, explaining why people are easily moved by such statements and why they are willing to trust someone who "understands" them. It then moves into practical techniques, introducing specific methods such as routine topics, negative questions, skillful probing, amplification and reduction talk, and double binds, and explaining how to open a conversation, how to obtain information without offending the other person, and how to let commitments and suggestions take effect naturally. The author emphasizes that the legitimate use of cold reading is not to manipulate or deceive, but to actively understand the other person's intentions and make oneself the kind of person who is "willing to understand others and worthy of trust," so as to get along more smoothly in the workplace, in romance, in friendships, and in family relationships. Concise in length and grounded in everyday examples, the book is well suited as an introductory read on interpersonal communication skills.

Editor's review

很多人对“冷读术”的第一反应是神秘甚至警惕：这不就是算命先生的骗术吗？石井裕之的这本书好就好在，他没有把技巧包装成玄学，而是把背后那套心理机制——巴纳姆效应、选择性记忆、矛盾心理——一层层拆开给你看。看完你会明白，那些“一语中的”的神奇时刻，多半来自细致的观察和巧妙的表达方式，而不是什么超能力。这本书的可贵之处在于立场。作者反复提醒读者：社会上操纵别人的人已经够多了，真正稀缺的是愿意理解别人、值得被信任的人。因此他把冷读术定位成一门“先读懂对方、再建立连接”的沟通手艺，而不是骗人的工具。这样的态度让技巧有了温度。作为冷读术系列的开山之作，本书短小精悍、图例清晰，通勤路上两三个晚上就能读完，读后立刻可以在日常闲聊中试一试。它不能让你一夜之间变成社交高手，但能帮你看懂许多“被看穿”的瞬间究竟发生了什么，从而既少上当，也更懂得怎么和人打交道。

Who it's for

A good fit for

对读心、占卜、算命现象好奇，想弄懂背后原理的读者
销售、客服、咨询等需要快速与陌生人建立信任的从业者
社交中常感拘谨、不知道怎么开启话题的年轻人
喜欢心理学通俗读物、希望提升沟通效率的普通读者

Not a good fit for

期待系统学习严谨心理学理论与实验研究的读者
想靠话术操纵、欺骗他人以谋取私利的人
反感“技巧类”人际方法、更认同真诚直白沟通的读者

Reading tips

先读前半部分理解巴纳姆效应等心理机制，再进入技巧章节，避免只学话术不懂原理。
每读完一个技巧，就在当天的日常对话中试用一次，并记录对方的反应，比空读更有效。
把书中的手法与“真诚了解对方”的目的结合，切忌为了炫技而滥用暗示与否定问句。
可与同系列的《你是冷读术高手》《冷读术实用手册》对读，比较同一作者不同阶段的表述。

About the publisher

Commonwealth Publishing

Commonwealth Publishing currently has only one title listed on this site, and publicly available information is limited, so its full publishing profile cannot yet be outlined comprehensively. Based on the existing catalogue, the publisher's direction touches on practical areas such as psychology, applied psychology, and communication. Its representative title is Cold Reading by Hiroshi Ishii. The book focuses on interpersonal observation, psychological insight, and communication techniques, reflecting Commonwealth Publishing's interest in making psychology accessible and applicable. Authors such as Hiroshi Ishii also support this direction. Overall, the publishing character shown by Commonwealth Publishing in this catalogue is to use psychology-related reading to help readers understand interpersonal interaction and improve their expression and communication skills, with a preference for practical and actionable titles.

FAQ

冷读术是不是就是骗术？

两者手法有重叠，但目的不同。冷读术本身是一套通过观察与语言技巧建立信任的沟通方法，算命师、骗子会滥用它；作者在书中明确主张用它去理解、接纳对方，而不是操纵他人。

这本书和《你是冷读术高手》是同一本吗？

不是。《冷读术》（瞬间赢得信任的冷读术）是石井裕之冷读术系列的开篇之作，《你是冷读术高手：三十秒看穿人心》是后续作品，内容侧重We型/Me型分类与商业谈判场景，简体版由二十一世纪出版社出版。

没有心理学基础能读懂吗？

可以。全书以日常案例和图解为主，语言浅白，涉及的心理概念如巴纳姆效应、选择性记忆都有通俗解释，属于入门级读物。

读完真的能看穿别人心思吗？

不能真正“读心”。书中技巧的本质是通过观察与模糊而准确的表达，引导对方主动透露信息并产生被理解的感觉，效果取决于练习程度与场合。

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Hiroyuki Ishii Author

Hiroyuki Ishii is an author whose work centers on psychological communication and practical mental techniques. Publicly available information about his nationality, dates of birth and death, and personal background is limited, making it difficult to establish a complete biography. Judging from the two works included in the collection, Cold Reading and The Practical Handbook of Cold Reading: Winning Others' Trust in an Instant, his writing focuses on how to build trust quickly and read other people's minds through observation, questioning, and language skills, placing him in the field of applied psychology and communication. His style is practical and operational, emphasizing techniques that can be learned and used, often explaining methods through specific situations and steps, and is suited to readers who wish to improve their interpersonal sensitivity and communication efficiency. Books on this subject attract a certain amount of attention among popular psychology titles, and his works have become common introductory reading in this category.