Instant Attraction
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Summary
In workplace socializing, what are some effective yet appropriate ice-breaking secrets?
When entertaining guests or clients, how can you behave in a way that leaves a good impression?
Social charm is a key skill that affects our entire lives. Whether you want others to like you, trust you, and follow you, or want your opinions to be adopted and your work to be more efficient, having social charm can help you achieve twice the result with half the effort.
This book is a work designed to help readers enhance their social charm and leave a good impression. Complete the 17 step-by-step exercises in the book to make people you meet for the first time like you, make those around you become your compatible partners, and stand out from the crowd.
Editor's review
Who it's for
A good fit for
- Workplace newcomers who hope to improve their first impressions and enhance their social charm
- Professionals in sales, consulting, public relations, and other fields that require quickly building trust
- Learners interested in nonverbal communication and behavioral psychology
- Readers who feel they are often overlooked or have social anxiety and want to systematically boost their confidence
Not a good fit for
- Readers expecting deep psychological theoretical analysis or academic research
- People who reject "technique-based" socializing and pursue completely natural expression
Reading tips
- It is recommended to first quickly read through the book's framework, then do targeted exercises on weak areas (such as voice, expression, and posture).
- The techniques in the book need to be repeatedly tested in real scenarios; one can focus on 1–2 methods per week and keep a practice record.
- Pay attention to cultural differences: some Japanese etiquette cases (such as bowing angles and honorific usage) need to be adjusted into expressions suitable for one's own environment.
About the publisher
Beijing United Publishing Co., Ltd. is a publisher known for its literature and history titles, with 2,065 books in the collection. Its publishing covers foreign literature, contemporary Chinese prose and essays, history, folk literature, and cultural books. Its list ranges from Sima Qian's complete edition of the Records of the Grand Historian to foreign classics such as The Book of Disquiet, All Quiet on the Western Front, Snow Country, The Stranger, and Jean-Christophe, as well as modern Chinese works including Teahouse and Dawn Blossoms Plucked at Dusk. Its authors and translators include Yasunari Kawabata, Fernando Pessoa, Erich Maria Remarque, Jin Xinyi, Zhou Miao, and Chen Chao. Public information is limited, but its catalogue reflects a balance between Chinese and foreign literary classics and historical and cultural works.
Contents
- 版权信息
- 前言 与人相遇的0.5秒，将决定你的人生
- 序言 成功离不开印象力
- 第一章 印象力，神奇般地改变人生
- 第1步 清晰地描绘出愿景和梦想
- 第2步 制作实现梦想的宣言
- 第3步 就是它！这样的瞬间，正是实现梦想的开端
- 第二章 印象力，为瞬间的相遇带来机会
- 第4步 只有自信的人才能获得别人的信任
- 第5步 相互帮助才是良好的人际关系构筑法
- 第6步 第一印象巨变
- 第7步 瞬间吸引对方的高效法则
- 第8步 无论何时都被需要之人的思考方式
- 第三章 表情、心灵、外表……0.5秒内就给人好感的人的印象力
- 第9步 带来幸运的“感谢法则”
- 第10步 坚定的自信可以使你更加优秀
- 第11步 将过去的苦难变成未来的快乐的训练
- 第四章 用印象力实现梦想的规则
- 第12步 尝试完全不可能的事情
- 第13步 无论做何事都能够享受般地努力
- 第14步 事事顺利的人才知道的心法
- 第15步 消除压力的“心情转换·恢复法则”
- 第16步 激发斗志的口头禅、声音、手势
- 第17步 用“HITS法则”打开梦想之门
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About the author
Xinmei Youji is an author in the field of Chinese-language book publishing about whom relatively limited public information is available. At present, only one work by this author is included in the collection: the inspirational and personal-growth book Instant Attraction. Because the author's nationality, dates of birth and death, English name, and personal background are not found in publicly available sources, this introduction cannot offer further details about the author's life and can only comment briefly on the existing work. Judging from the inspirational and personal-growth category to which Instant Attraction belongs, the book likely focuses on interpersonal attraction, self-improvement, and the shaping of personal charisma, and is aimed at readers who wish to improve their own state and strengthen their interpersonal influence. Writing of this kind usually emphasizes readability and practicality, relying on everyday experience sharing and accessible expression in an effort to offer readers inspiration through easy reading. Given the limited available material, it is difficult at present to make a definite assessment of Xinmei Youji's writing style, other works, or social influence; readers may form their own impressions from the specific content of Instant Attraction.
Shi Pengfei is an author about whom limited public information is currently available; only one work by this author is held in the collection, titled Instant Attraction. Judging from the title and its category, the book falls under inspirational and personal-growth writing and likely addresses themes such as personal appeal, interpersonal interaction, or self-improvement, aimed at general readers who wish to improve their own state and social performance. Because information on the author's life, nationality, education, and other works is lacking, it is not yet possible to outline a complete writing trajectory. The available material is insufficient to judge the full range of the author's style or to assess the work's sales and social impact. What can be confirmed is that Shi Pengfei has so far entered readers' view through a single work, with a writing orientation toward practicality and self-growth. Should more works or author information become available, this introduction may still be supplemented and revised.
