The Three Masteries of Efficient Eloquence
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Editor's review
In terms of content structure, the book is clearly organized, and most cases are drawn from everyday work and life scenarios, giving it considerable reference value. It is more like a toolbox, offering concrete methods such as how to quickly organize language, how to enhance persuasiveness, and how to handle common communication difficulties. The advantage of this approach—directly presenting "moves"—is that it is quick to pick up, and readers can rapidly acquire some usable techniques; correspondingly, however, the book devotes relatively limited space to building softer capabilities such as depth of communication, empathy, and listening.
Overall, the value of this book lies in its "targetedness" and "instrumentality." It suits those who hope to improve their performance in the short term in scenarios such as meeting speeches, business negotiations, and daily reports. When reading, readers are advised to bring actual problems to the book in search of modular solutions and to engage in deliberate practice. If one expects to achieve a sublimation of communicative attainment or a deeper understanding of the art of language through this book, one may feel somewhat unsatisfied. But for readers who pursue practicality and efficiency and who are at the beginner or intermediate stage of improving expressive ability, this book provides a clearly structured, easy-to-follow roadmap.
Who it's for
A good fit for
- Workplace newcomers or middle managers who urgently need to improve impromptu expression in scenarios such as work reports and business negotiations
- Readers who are rather introverted and hope to open topics more fluently and confidently in social settings
- People who often need to speak in public but suffer from confused logic and failure to convey meaning, and who seek structured expression methods
- Learners who regard communication as an important skill and are willing to practice it through systematic methods
Not a good fit for
- Academic readers who pursue in-depth theoretical discussion of communication philosophy and the art of language
- Senior professionals with extremely rich communication experience who have already formed a mature personal style and seek higher-level breakthroughs
Reading tips
- It is recommended to adopt a "problem-method-practice" reading model, focusing on intensive reading of relevant chapters and putting them into practice according to one's weak points
- When reading, keep a notebook and organize the book's core frameworks and "golden lines" into one's own phrase library for regular review
- There is no need to finish the book in one sitting; it can be used as a tool manual, to be consulted for corresponding strategies when communication challenges arise in practice
About the publisher
Founded in 1984, Heilongjiang Fine Arts Publishing House is a professional art publisher in Heilongjiang Province. Its publishing scope covers art theory, technique textbooks, calligraphy and seal carving, art albums, photography, as well as comic books and children's cartoon readers, with books on art college entrance examination techniques as its signature brand. Its library contains 75 titles, which, in addition to art, also involve applied psychology, foreign literature, modern romance, youth literature, and time-travel fantasy. Representative books include Children's Educational Psychology, Have You Seen a Dragon? The Talking Kind, Maugham's Writing Notes, You're Sweet Even When Silent, Smitten with Him Millions of Times a Day, and White Snow and Green Lotus, while its authors include Alfred Adler, W. Somerset Maugham, Chen Guoxing, Zhang Junxian, Su Xing'an, Senmu Daoyu, Chunbai, and Shiwan Yueguang. Public information is limited, and the above is summarized mainly from the books in the library.
Contents
- 版权信息
- 前言
- 上篇 幽默让沟通色彩斑斓
- 小幽默里有大道理
- 幽默是知识和修养的体现
- 幽默的人更有魅力
- 幽默能让错误变得可爱
- 幽默让语言更有说服力
- 幽默是领导者驾驭下属的金钥匙
- 幽默是一种沟通智慧
- 幽默是一种生活的艺术
- 幽默不要掺杂嘲讽
- 幽默要恰如其分
- 幽默要真实自然
- 幽默是风趣生动的
- 幽默不是搞笑
- 幽默不是长篇大论
- 幽默是沟通的黄金法则
- 幽默让你成为焦点人物
- 幽默是社交达人的绝招
- 幽默可以缩短人与人之间的心理距离
- 用幽默为你避免尴尬
- 用幽默化解矛盾
- 用幽默打开局面
- 幽默的劝导比口若悬河更有效
- 幽默是一种反击技巧
- 应聘时幽默让你出类拔萃
- 幽默是自我推销的高超手段
- 中篇 赞美让沟通充满温馨
- 注重过程，让赞美更贴心
- 恰当的赞美方式让人愉快
- 赞美要趁早
- 具体的赞美更打动人心
- 多赞美他人的闪光点
- 赞美是人际交往的润滑剂
- 赞美，是最慷慨的给予
- 赞美领导，恭维不奉承
- 赞美不得体，会导致适得其反
- 精准的赞美，助你脱颖而出
- 背后的赞美更动人心
- 真诚赞美，言之有物
- 下篇 拒绝让沟通个性十足
- 表明底线，让别人自然无法强求
- 拒绝虚荣，不给自己找麻烦
- 坚持原则，拒绝特例
- 拒绝说违心的话
- 保持立场，拒绝做墙头草
- 拒绝道听途说
- 不做死要面子的人，清理麻烦
- 拥有主见，凸显你的存在感
- 委婉拒绝，不让自己为难
- 别小看自己，也别高估别人
- 这个世界谁也不欠你，你也不欠谁
- 拒绝来自亲人的烂好心
- 拒绝做自己能力外的事情
- 拒绝做受气包
- 拒绝不想参加的邀请
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About the author
Liu Lei is an author whose publicly available information is limited, yet whose works span a notably wide range of fields, reflecting strong interdisciplinary writing ability. The collection includes 18 of his titles, covering politics, economics and management, computer applications, exam preparation, and inspirational growth. Among them, U.S. Nuclear Weapons Policy and National Security Strategy during the Cold War reflects his attention to international politics and security issues, while A Study of Ethical Narrative in Ming and Qing Fiction shows his academic interest in literature and ethics. His textbooks on economic law and corporate management serve teaching practice, his Java application books support technical learning, and his writing on recruitment and workplace topics stays close to real-world needs. Overall, Liu Lei's writing combines academic inquiry with practical guidance and reaches a broad readership.
