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Love 2.0

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40
ISBN
9787508646701

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Summary

Love 2.0 is one of the major works by the American positive psychologist Barbara L. Fredrickson, originally titled Love 2.0: How Our Supreme Emotion Affects Everything We Feel, Think, Do, and Become; the Chinese edition was translated by Xiao Xiao and published by CITIC Press in 2014, with the subtitle "How Does Love Affect Our Thinking, Behavior, Social Life, and Life?" The book is divided into two parts, "What Love Is" and "The Method of Love." The first part begins from research in positive psychology and psychophysiology and reexamines the ancient question of love: the author argues that love is not merely an enduring supreme emotion, nor is it limited to romance, family, and friendship, but is a brief, micro-level emotional connection and positive resonance that arises between people (even strangers); this connection influences our thinking, behavior, health, and well-being through bodily and neural mechanisms. The book discusses physiological mechanisms such as oxytocin and the ripple effects of love in parent-child relationships and social networks. The second part turns to practice, introducing a series of actionable "love exercises": a daily reflection exercise, loving-kindness meditation, self-compassion meditation, empathy exercises, and methods for noticing and responding to others in daily life and for practicing loving more people. The author weaves in the true stories of many ordinary people to show that loving oneself, loving others, and even universal love are capacities that can be gradually strengthened through conscious practice. The book continues the author's "broaden-and-build" theory, viewing love as a cultivable psychological resource, and is suitable for readers who want to reunderstand love from a scientific perspective and improve their relationships and physical and mental well-being.

Editor's review

很多人以为「爱」只属于文学与诗,或者只与伴侣、家人有关。弗雷德里克森这本书的不同之处,在于她把它当作一个可以用实验来研究的心理与生理现象:爱是两个人之间短暂却真实的积极性共鸣,会改变心跳、视线、思维的开阔程度,也会一点点塑造我们的健康与关系网。 这本书的结构对读者很友好。前半部分讲「爱是什么」,拆解占有、永恒、无条件等常见预设;后半部分讲「爱怎么练」,从每日回想、慈爱冥想、关爱自我的冥想,到同理心练习与「看见他人」的日常功课,步骤明确,几乎可以照着做。作者还穿插了几位普通人的故事,读起来不枯燥。 需要提醒的是,这里的「爱」不止是浪漫爱情,它同样包括对自己的善意、对同事和陌生人的关注。如果你正被亲密关系困扰,或只是想让日子多一点温度,这本书提供的是方法,而不是安慰话。

Who it's for

A good fit for

  • 对积极心理学、情绪科学感兴趣的普通读者
  • 想改善亲密关系、亲子关系或人际沟通的人
  • 容易自我苛责、希望学习自我关怀的读者
  • 对冥想、正念类练习感兴趣并愿意动手实践的人

Not a good fit for

  • 期待系统恋爱技巧或婚恋攻略的读者
  • 偏好纯哲学、人文随笔式「谈爱」写法的读者
  • 希望读到大量临床个案细节的心理咨询从业者

Reading tips

  1. 先读第二部分「爱的方法」,挑一项练习(如每日回想)坚持两周,再回看前半部分的理论。
  2. 阅读时随身记下自己当天经历的「微小联结」瞬间,与书中案例对照。
  3. 冥想类练习建议配合音频或安静环境进行,每天十至十五分钟即可。
  4. 可结合作者的《积极情绪的力量》一起读,理解其「拓展—建构」理论脉络。

About the publisher

CITIC Press China · Founded in 1988

Founded in 1988 and affiliated with China CITIC Group, CITIC Press focuses on business and economics, social sciences, literature and children's books, with common categories covering social sciences, finance, literature, Eastern philosophy and literary appreciation. Its library holds 91 titles, including Yuval Noah Harari's Sapiens trilogy, Thomas Piketty's Capital in the Twenty-First Century, Wu Xiaobo's Thirty Years of Strife: Chinese Enterprises 1978–2008, Nelly Sachs's The Weight of Butterflies: Selected Poems of Nelly Sachs, as well as New Interpretations of the Analects and Chiang Hsun's lectures on Dream of the Red Chamber. Its authors and translators include Lin Junhong, Ba Shusong, Chen Li and Chang Fen-ling. Overall, the press introduces influential works in finance and social sciences while balancing classic translation and local appreciation in literature and Eastern philosophy, combining academic depth with accessible reading.

Contents

  1. Part One: What Love Is
  2. Chapter 1: Love—The Supreme Human Emotion
  3. We Do Not Truly Understand Love
  4. The Latest Scientific Theory of Love
  5. A Newly Upgraded Version of Love
  6. Chapter 2: The Causality of Love
  7. Love Is Positive Resonance Between People
  8. Love Is the Product of Emotional Connection
  9. Love Is the Driving Force of Human Flourishing
  10. Intimate Love Opens Your Heart
  11. Parent-Child Love Shapes a Child's Life
  12. A New Picture of Love
  13. Chapter 3: Love and Health
  14. Love Lets You Think Others' Thoughts
  15. The Catalyst of Love—Oxytocin
  16. Love Makes Body and Mind Healthier
  17. Love Frees Us from Loneliness
  18. Love Enhances Our Well-Being
  19. Chapter 4: The Ripple Effects of Love
  20. Love and Thinking
  21. Love and Behavior
  22. The Power of Love
  23. Awakening the Capacity to Love
  24. Part Two: The Method of Love
  25. Chapter 5: Love Exercises
  26. Preparatory Love Exercises
  27. Daily Reflection Exercise
  28. Donna's Love Story
  29. Loving-Kindness Meditation
  30. Opening the Door to Opportunities for Love
  31. Chapter 6: Learning to Love Yourself
  32. Starting with Practicing Self-Love
  33. Overcoming Obstacles to Self-Love
  34. Moving the Stumbling Blocks of Self-Compassion
  35. Discovering Self-Love
  36. Self-Compassion Meditation
  37. Listening to Your True Inner Voice
  38. Erica's Love Story
  39. Loving Yourself Is the Prerequisite for Loving Others
  40. Chapter 7: Truly Loving Others

FAQ

这本书和《爱是什么》是同一本书吗?
是同一部作品的不同中文版本。原书名为 Love 2.0,2014年由中信出版社以《爱的方法》为名出版,译者萧潇;后来另有《爱是什么》版本,章节划分与译名略有差异,内容主体相同。
书里讲的爱只指爱情吗?
不是。作者把爱界定为人与人之间的积极性共鸣,涵盖爱情、亲情、友情,也包括爱自己、爱他人与对更广泛人群的关怀,因此书名中的「爱」范围比日常理解更宽。
这本书有实操练习吗?
有。第二部分集中给出练习方法,如每日回想练习、慈爱冥想、关爱自我的冥想、同理心练习等,并配有具体步骤与案例说明,读者可以按章实践。
需要心理学基础才能读吗?
不需要。书中涉及催产素、积极情绪实验等研究,但表述通俗,属于面向大众的积极心理学读物,有基本阅读习惯即可理解。

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About the author

Barbara Fredrickson is an author writing on positive psychology, and her work The Power of Positive Emotions is classified under inspirational personal growth. Publicly available information about her nationality, dates of birth and death, education, and professional career is limited, so a complete personal biography cannot be provided here. Judging from the available work, her writing focuses on the role of positive emotions in personal growth and daily life, and tends to translate psychological ideas into content that readers can understand and apply. Her style is plain and accessible, emphasizing conceptual insight and self-regulation. For Chinese readers who wish to learn about ideas related to positive emotions, this book can serve as an introductory read; readers may also follow further public research in the field of emotion studies.

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