Teach You Eloquence in Dealing with the World

Name: Teach You Eloquence in Dealing with the World
ISBN: 9787805072661

Feng ZhiyuanLiaohai Publishing House · ChinaApr 2025

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Word count: 63K words
Chapters: 31
ISBN: 9787805072661

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Summary

All titles in this series are divided into chapters and grouped according to their specific content. Highly readable, practical, and informative, they are excellent reading for young people learning public speaking, quyi, and performance, and ideal additions to the collections and displays of libraries at all levels.

Editor's review

Teach You Social Speaking Skills focuses on the art of speaking in everyday interactions. Organized into chapters by topic, it breaks social speaking down into modules that can be understood, imitated, and practiced. Its value lies not in piling up lofty theories but in grounding "speaking well" in concrete situations: how to speak without offending, how to express yourself with the right measure, and how to be considerate of others' feelings in conversation. The book emphasizes readability and practicality, making it suitable for young people building basic communication awareness as they grow, and also as supplementary material for school speaking activities and reading classes. It should not be read as a quick-fix manual; rather, readers should use the chapter structure to compare the book against their own speaking habits and revisit situations where they tend to stumble. For readers with limited social experience who want to improve how they express themselves, this book offers a step-by-step starting path; those with some communication experience can also use it to identify blind spots in their own expression.

Who it's for

A good fit for

Young readers who want to improve everyday communication and learn the right measure in speaking
Teachers guiding school clubs or reading classes who need public-speaking training material
Young readers just entering society who want to strengthen their interpersonal communication skills
Practical readers who like learning by chapter categories and easy reference

Not a good fit for

Readers expecting systematic linguistic theory or academic depth
Those seeking advanced workplace negotiation or specialized public-speaking training
Readers who prefer lengthy case analysis and psychological mechanism breakdowns

Reading tips

First read the table of contents, then prioritize chapters based on the social situations you encounter most often.
After each chapter, recall a recent unsatisfactory conversation and try rewriting your expression using the book's approach.
Do role-reversal exercises with classmates or friends, testing the book's phrasing in real conversation.
Keep a notebook recording situations where you tend to say the wrong thing, and review and adjust regularly.

About the publisher

Liaohai Publishing House China · Founded in 1996

Liaohai Publishing House is a comprehensive publisher known for textbooks and the collation of ancient works. Its publishing scope covers state-approved textbooks, local curriculum materials, supplementary educational books, and national and local ancient-text compilation projects, while also extending into humanities fields such as Eastern philosophy. Its catalog contains about 4,694 titles, with representative works including the multi-volume Records of the Grand Historian (Shiji), and its author resources include classic writers and works such as Sima Qian and Confucius. Grounded in educational publishing and the transmission of traditional culture, the press maintains sustained investment in ancient-text collation, forming a publishing profile that balances textbooks and scholarship. Due to limited public information, its more specific publishing directions and features require further supplementation.

版权信息
前言
第一章伶牙俐齿
1.如欲擒之，必先纵之
2.投石问路，探马先行
3.引“蛇”出洞，诱其上钩
4.以柔克刚，进退自如
5.用激将法让他说出真话
6.只让他选择，不让他讨价还价
7.以退为进，后发制人
第二章言必有中
1.打动人心，说话说到重点上
2.投其所好，多提令对方得意的事
3.激将有方，让对方不得不做
4.真诚对待，想不答应都难
5.用善意的威胁逼对方妥协
6.央求不如婉求，劝导不如诱导
7.软磨硬泡，达到求人目的
第三章能说会道
1.会卖关子，巧抓芳心
2.巧妙赞美，博得红颜一笑
3.幽默是爱情的调味剂
4.巧妙地说出“我爱你”
5.有情无缘巧拒绝
6.男人也是爱听好话的
7.妙语使家庭充满乐趣
第四章三寸之舌
1.口才，你一生的财富
2.口才决定你的成败得失
3.三寸不烂之舌，强于百万雄兵
4.好口才并非天生

FAQ

Is this book suitable for young people with no public-speaking foundation at all?

Yes. The book is organized into chapters by topic and emphasizes readability and practicality, with no excessively high theoretical threshold. Beginners can start with everyday social situations, understand first and then imitate, gradually building speaking habits. However, improving public speaking requires practice; reading alone is not enough, so read while practicing.

Can the social speaking content in this book be used directly in the workplace?

The book is positioned as basic reading for young people learning public speaking and performance. Principles such as sense of measure and empathetic expression are universal, but workplace situations are more complex, involving interest coordination and professional communication. Readers can draw on the basic ideas and then adjust them to specific workplace rules; they should not copy them directly.

How long does it take to finish this book?

The book is organized by chapter categories, suitable for fragmented reading and for skipping around by topic. If you read one chapter a day and combine it with practice, you can read through it in a few weeks; if you only want to solve expression problems in specific situations, you can read just the relevant chapters in less time. Judge by the quality of practice rather than reading speed.

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About the author

Feng Zhiyuan Author · Chinese

Feng Zhiyuan is a full-time chief editor long engaged in compiling books for young readers; public information about him is limited, and few details of his life are on record. He served as chief editor at Liaohai Publishing House for large series such as the Student Indoor and Outdoor Sports Learning Manual, Logical Thinking Training for Teenagers, and Inspiring Science Stories for Young People, and has compiled more than three hundred inspirational and popular-science titles, with 241 works held in the database. His works span education, classic works, inspirational growth, examinations, social fiction, and applied psychology. Representative titles include Good Character Makes a Good Life, Believe You Are an Eagle, and Tasting the Flavor of Life. Aimed mainly at students and young readers, they emphasize healthy physical and mental development and the cultivation of thinking and character. It should be noted that the online profile describing a "teacher born in 1930 who volunteered to teach in Ningxia" refers to a different person of the same name, not this author.