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Slow Life

Rating 3.7
Word count
60K words
Chapters
49
ISBN
9787543069398

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Summary

Many people are merely existing, not truly living. So many things, if we don't do them now, we may never do them in this lifetime... No matter how busy or exhausted you are, don't forget to slow down the pace of life; no matter how hard things get, learn to savor life! Starting now, let Slow Living (with a beautifully designed literary notebook and color psychological illustrations) give you permission to relax. This book is a stress-relief plan tailored by stress-management expert and bestselling mind-body author Allen Elkin for busy, tense urbanites. It offers professional advice and 52 stress-reduction methods, analyzing various urban stressors and treating each at its root, so you can bring body, mind, and spirit to their optimal state—and live a comfortable slow life even amid the noise and bustle.

Editor's review

Slow Living is not a simple time-management guide but a practical handbook in which Dr. Allen Elkin integrates psychology with life philosophy. Dr. Elkin is a well-known expert in stress management, which gives the book a solid foundation far beyond the generic "inspirational" fare on the market. Its core is not teaching you how to "do fewer things" but guiding you to redefine your relationship with time, tasks, and self-expectations—using cognitive reframing to lighten psychological burdens and thereby recover composure and agency amid a fast pace.

The book's value lies in its systematic, actionable approach. It begins with identifying your personal "time stressors" and gradually introduces concrete "slowing down" strategies, such as setting psychological boundaries, practicing selective ignoring, and cultivating single-task focus. These methods are grounded in psychological theory yet presented through highly everyday scenarios—handling email bombardment, responding to social invitations, switching between family and work. Rather than preaching abstract ideas, it offers micro-tools such as the "two-minute decision method" and "anxiety-delay exercise," so change can start with one small action.

For readers who commonly feel chased by deadlines and overwhelmed by information, this book is like a gentle "antidote." It avoids stern lecturing and is full of empathy, helping you distinguish "busy" from "fulfilling" and arguing how "slow" can ultimately enhance efficiency and creativity. Reading it feels like conducting a self-diagnosis and healing process, with the ultimate goal of building within yourself a stable core that is not swept along by external rhythms.

Who it's for

A good fit for

  • High-pressure professionals who constantly feel short on time and crushed by to-do lists
  • Explorers who want to improve their quality of life, step away from busyness, and enjoy the present moment more attentively
  • Readers interested in applied psychology who are willing to improve their state of mind through cognitive and behavioral adjustments
  • People prone to anxiety who want to build healthier attitudes toward time and psychological boundaries

Not a good fit for

  • Readers seeking instant results, quick-success secrets, or extreme time-management tricks
  • Those expecting extensive philosophical discussion or literary expression and with little interest in a practical step-by-step manual

Reading tips

  1. You need not read it in order; use the table of contents to start directly with the chapter addressing what troubles you most right now
  2. Keep pen and paper nearby while reading and jot down personal insights and action plans prompted by the exercises
  3. Treat the book as a multi-week practice course: try one or two core strategies each week and observe changes in your inner state

About the publisher

Wuhan Publishing House China · Founded in 1986

Wuhan Publishing House is a comprehensive publisher known for works in history, the humanities, and popular science. Judging from its titles in our catalog, its publishing spans history, biography, foreign literature, applied psychology, and popular science, while also covering practical exam-preparation books. Representative titles include Lü Simian's China: A Macro History, the two volumes of the Xinbian Guowen Duben ( Jiazhong Ben) edited by Ye Shengtao and others, and foreign classics of thought and literature such as Jung's Memories, Dreams, Reflections, Osamu Dazai's No Longer Human, Freud's Introductory Lectures on Psycho-Analysis, and Rousseau's The Social Contract (bilingual edition); in popular science, there is Yakov Perelman's Physics for Entertainment. Its authors include both Chinese and foreign figures such as Lü Simian, Ye Shengtao, Jung, Osamu Dazai, Freud, and Rousseau. Overall, the press emphasizes a combination of classic texts and general reading, balancing scholarship with readability. Public information is limited; the above is based only on the titles in our catalog.

Contents

  1. 版权信息
  2. 前言
  3. 第一章 从这里开始
  4. 理解压力
  5. 压力和身体
  6. 学习如何放松
  7. 放松你的身体
  8. 带来平静的呼吸方法
  9. 放松心灵
  10. 第二章 化繁为简的生活
  11. 在快节奏中漫步
  12. 不再苦苦等待
  13. 管理你的时间
  14. 少即是多
  15. 降低消费的艺术
  16. 第三章 让内心变得有弹性
  17. 压力来自你的思维模式
  18. 远离思维陷阱
  19. 你的愤怒有益吗?
  20. 控制坏脾气
  21. 少些忧虑
  22. 培养内在的自信
  23. 发现你的生命重心
  24. 发掘你的灵性层面
  25. 第四章 建立良好的人际关系
  26. 找到“都市乡村”
  27. 融入集体
  28. 寻找朋友
  29. 助人为乐
  30. 战胜社交恐惧
  31. 让自己更坚定
  32. 应付不好相处的人
  33. 寻找都市罗曼史
  34. 第五章 寻找内在的平和与宁静
  35. 家是心灵的港湾
  36. 发现独处的乐趣
  37. 消除噪音
  38. 城市绿洲
  39. 内在的平静
  40. 第六章 保持健康
  41. 吃得好,更健康
  42. 避免情绪化饮食
  43. 关于运动
  44. 睡一晚好觉
  45. 第七章 更好享受都市生活
  46. 保证安全
  47. 亲近大自然
  48. 城市探险
  49. 暂离城市

FAQ

How is this book fundamentally different from other "minimalist living" or "decluttering" books?
This book focuses on inner psychological processes and cognitive adjustment rather than external decluttering. It addresses the psychological drivers of "why we can't stop" (such as anxiety, fear, and tying self-worth to productivity) and provides psychological tools to change our "relationship" with tasks and time—slowing down from the inside out.
Are the book's methods suitable for office workers who cannot control their work pace?
Very much so. The book's core wisdom lies precisely in changing your internal responses and priority setting within unchangeable external demands. It teaches you to "selectively invest" strategically, carve out psychological rest zones within your responsibilities, and implant moments of "slow" through tiny habits (such as a moment of focused breathing or deliberately doing one task at a time), thereby changing your experience of the whole day.
Does practicing "slow living" mean lower efficiency and achievement?
Quite the opposite. Citing psychological research, the book argues that continuous multitasking and high-pressure states impair deep thinking and creativity and lead to poorer decisions. The essence of "slow" is eliminating unnecessary expenditure, focusing energy on what truly matters, and achieving more sustainable, higher-quality output by increasing focus and flow per unit of time.

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About the author

Alan Elkin is an author about whom limited public information is available. His only confirmed work is a book titled Slow Living, which is commonly classified under applied psychology, suggesting that its content centers on psychological adjustment, the pace of life, and everyday attitudes, and is aimed at general readers who wish to ease tension and rearrange the rhythm of their daily lives. Judging from the title and the category, Elkin's writing leans toward practical psychological reading, focusing on turning psychological ideas into actionable life advice rather than building an abstract theoretical system. Because no reliable public records have been found regarding the author's educational background, professional identity, nationality, or dates of birth and death, no further account of his life and creative development can be given. What can be confirmed is that Elkin has so far entered the view of Chinese readers through this single work, and his writing style and influence await further materials and translations to be presented.

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