The Franklin Effect
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Summary
When Franklin served as clerk of the Pennsylvania Assembly, he hoped to win the support of a certain legislator but could not succeed.
By chance, Franklin learned that this legislator owned a rare book, so he wrote a letter asking to borrow it.
The legislator soon sent the book over, and when Franklin returned it, he enclosed a thank-you note. At the next session of Congress, the legislator spoke with Franklin on his own initiative, and the two became close friends who shared everything, a friendship that lasted the rest of their lives...
If you want someone's support, first ask them for a small favor, and an unexpected turning point may follow! This remarkable phenomenon is called the Franklin Effect.
Handle relationships this way, and it will shape what you achieve in the future!
Simple! Durable! Revolutionary! Open this book and improve your relationships right away!
Editor's review
From an editorial perspective, the book's distinctive quality is its constructive orientation. It does not stop at revealing the subtle psychology of human interaction; it sets out a positive framework for action: how to initiate virtuous interaction through appropriate requests for help, how to deepen connection by creating a sense of being needed, and how to avoid the traps of over-giving or self-closure in relationships. For readers in a digitally hyperconnected yet often lonely age, this is genuinely useful. The chapters on activating weak ties and easing the psychological burden of socializing will particularly resonate with urban professionals. Readers should note, however, that the techniques work only when grounded in sincerity and good judgment; mechanical application may backfire. Overall, this is a sincere effort to turn social-psychology wisdom into a tool for empowering relationships.
Who it's for
A good fit for
- Newcomers or mid-level managers who want to improve workplace collaboration and take more initiative socially
- Readers who feel confused in building or maintaining intimate or friendship relationships and want methodological guidance
- Enthusiasts of applied social psychology who enjoy discerning behavioral logic in everyday phenomena
- Introverted or reserved individuals who want to improve interpersonal interaction with low psychological burden
Not a good fit for
- Pure theory researchers seeking in-depth academic discussion or rigorous experimental validation
- Problem-oriented readers looking for solutions to serious interpersonal conflict or psychological disorders
Reading tips
- Treat the book as a tool kit: read it through once to build the framework, then revisit and practice the chapters most relevant to your own situations
- As you read, reflect against your own experience and note ideas that resonate or raise questions; this deepens understanding
- Some techniques may require repeated attempts and adjustment before they work; be patient and pay attention to subtle changes in how both sides feel during interactions
About the publisher
Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House is a publisher known for its literary titles, with a catalogue spanning foreign literature, world classics, classical Chinese literature, essays and miscellaneous writings, and mystery and detective fiction. Judging from the more than 1,100 books in the database, the press publishes foreign classics such as Crime and Punishment, Snow Country, The Complete Sherlock Holmes and Letter from an Unknown Woman, as well as Chinese classical and modern literary works including Lu Xun's Wandering and A Madman's Diary and Wu Jingzi's The Scholars. In terms of translators and authors, translations by Cao Guowei and Tan Jinghua appear in its foreign literature titles, and the authors involved include Dostoevsky, Kawabata Yasunari, Conan Doyle and Zweig. Its publishing character lies in introducing Chinese and foreign literary classics side by side, balancing popular and serious works and attending to both readability and literary value. Public information is limited; the above is a brief overview based solely on the books in the database.
Contents
- 版权信息
- 写在前面: 好关系,靠麻烦
- One 富兰克林效应: 好关系都是麻烦出来的
- 1.麻烦出的好关系:独立战争中的天才谋略家
- 2.好的人脉不怕麻烦,就怕没联系
- 3.关系的建立,都是一种“富兰克林效应”
- 4.难以割舍的沉没成本
- 5.讨喜的人:有趣的灵魂万里挑一
- 6.会“麻烦别人”也是一种高情商
- 7.30个基本:别让感情,败给相处
- Two 别让不好意思,错失有效人脉
- 1.拒绝敏感者:克服被拒绝的恐惧
- 2.摆脱社交焦虑,别把交往当负担
- 3.移情沟通:让表达更有感染力
- 4.内心敏感、多疑、玻璃心人群的生活指南
- 5.骨子里清高,内心却自卑
- 6.好状态不靠忍,驾驭你的负面情绪
- 7.识人术:8条技法教你看人不走眼
- Three 保持分寸感,需要掌握关系边界
- 1.深到骨子里的教养,是有边界感
- 2.拒绝≠被讨厌,高情商的人这样“Say No”
- 3.当代都市青年生活指南
- 4.生活充满希望,用自由救赎灵魂
- 5.与人冲突,是一种能力
- 6.美酒虽好,但别强人所难
- 7.读心术:人际交往中的实用心理学技巧
- Four 建立个人品牌,成为不可或缺的人
- 1.有效打造个人品牌
- 2.有哪些行之有效的学习方法?
- 3.提升认知结构,搭建知识体系
- 4.如何取得他人的信任?
- 5.成为一名优秀的普通人
- 6.文案变现:新媒体时代下的必备技能
- 7.有哪些相见恨晚的生活道理?
- Five 彼此需要,让我们走得更近
- 1.付出越多,离爱越远
- 2.仪式感拯救无趣生活
- 3.依赖型人格的自我蜕变
- 4.怎么保存恋爱中的新鲜感?
- 5.为什么越来越多的女性不愿意结婚了?
- 6.打扮成自己喜欢的样子
- 7.不畏艰难,要成为自己的女神
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Chen Yunhao: currently, publicly available information is limited. His nationality, dates of birth and death, and educational background have not been clearly recorded, and no English name can be found in the existing information. According to the library's holdings, Chen Yunhao has one work, The Franklin Effect, which is categorized under applied psychology. This suggests that his writing tends toward using psychological concepts as an entry point to explain interpersonal interaction and psychological mechanisms to general readers. Based on the available material, the author appears to focus on turning fairly academic psychological effects into accessible popular content, using cases or everyday situations to help readers understand abstract theories. Because more records about the author's life and writing career are lacking, it is difficult to judge the full range of his writing style and overall influence, and it is also impossible to confirm whether he has other works or long-term writing plans. Readers interested in the author and his writing may learn more about his expressive characteristics and topics of concern by examining the specific content of The Franklin Effect.