The Safety Net
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Summary
no one will help you when you're in trouble;
no one will care when you're hurting;
...
You must walk your own road, bear your own hardships, and carry your own burdens. Don't pin your hopes on others. Adjust your mindset and make yourself strong enough. Standing on your own and being your own safety net is the greatest source of confidence in our lives.
Starting from five dimensions—self-awakening, self-drive, self-challenge, letting go of expectations, and rejecting internal friction—the author Qingshan tells how ordinary women awaken from confusion and compliance to truly recognize the power of the self. These true stories will offer us, when we are in difficulty, ways to break through and live a brilliant life!
Editor's review
Who it's for
A good fit for
- Readers who prefer realist literature, especially those interested in urban themes
- Urban readers aged 25–35 undergoing career transitions or emotional confusion
- Readers interested in interpersonal relationships and institutional design from a sociological perspective
- Deep readers who look for life insights and emotional resonance in fiction
Not a good fit for
- Readers seeking fast-paced, plot-driven entertainment fiction
- Readers impatient with psychological description and detailed exposition
Reading tips
- Read in a relatively quiet environment to better appreciate the author's delicate psychological portrayal
- Pay attention to how recurring images (such as contract clauses, camera lenses, and office furnishings) form metaphors for the characters' fates
- Pause briefly after each chapter to reflect on the reasonableness of the characters' choices and the social causes behind them
About the publisher
China Friendship Publishing Company is a comprehensive publisher known for its literary titles, covering classical Chinese literature, foreign literature, folk literature and cultural appreciation. According to the books in the database, its classical list includes celebrated dramas and novels such as The Peony Pavilion, The Romance of the Western Chamber and Strange Tales from a Chinese Studio, as well as note-style classics like Hong Mai's Rongzhai Suibi. In foreign literature it offers translations of Dostoevsky's Crime and Punishment, Kawabata Yasunari's Snow Country and Anne Frank's The Diary of a Young Girl, involving translators such as Zeng Siyi. It also publishes The Complete Literary Works of Lu Xun and titles associated with the "Xue'er Shuguan" editorial group, balancing the collation and popularization of classic texts. Public information on its publishing features and plans is limited; the above is summarized only from the books in the database.
Contents
- 版权信息
- 前言
- 第一章 自我觉醒 40岁也可以重启人生
- 首先我是我自己，其次都是其次
- 任何关系，其亲疏远近都是动态的，没有永恒的亲密
- 5000次的打击，5000次的站起，能定义我的只有我自己
- 不是所有的打击都会带来一蹶不振，勇敢的人会生发出黑色生命力
- 第二章 内在驱动 目标是最好的动力系统
- 有想法，有追求，甚至要有野心
- 确立目标，持志如心痛
- 从长期目标中拆解出中短期目标，摒弃杂念并持之以恒
- 人生没有意义，它只是我们过去一切体验的总和
- 第三章 不断挑战 不逼自己一把，永远不知道你有多优秀
- 能力都是逼出来的，幸福都是奋斗出来的
- 别怕，有我在
- 心有猛虎，细嗅蔷薇：用强大的自我内核驾驭万物
- 第四章 放下期待 我就是自己的码头
- 活在人世间，你务必拒绝“等”“靠”“要”
- 祛魅：让自己变好，是解决一切问题的关键
- 放下对别人“无条件的爱”的期待
- 拒绝“恋爱脑”：修炼自己比寻找伴侣更重要
- 第五章 拒绝内耗 永远为自己撑腰
- 知行合一：在知与行之间，把它写下来
- 战胜拖延症，开启破壁机模式
- 接纳自己，为自己撑腰
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About the author
Qingshan is an author about whom limited public information is available. Two works by this author are currently held in the collection, one touching on applied psychology and the other on artificial intelligence. The first, Doudi, leans toward applied psychology, focusing on the psychological support and coping strategies people draw on in real-life situations. The second, How to Ask AI Questions, centers on how to pose questions effectively in the age of artificial intelligence and belongs to the practical how-to genre. These two works suggest that Qingshan addresses the practical problems ordinary readers encounter in daily life and in a new technological environment. The writing tends toward application and popularization rather than dense academic exposition, seeking to translate topics in psychology and artificial intelligence into content readers can understand and act on. Because the author's nationality, dates of birth and death, professional background and other details are not clearly documented, biographical specifics and the full arc of the author's work cannot yet be outlined; the above is based only on the available works, and further personal information awaits public records.
