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Stopping Deceit with Deceit

Rating 4.0
Chapters
1
Series
Liu Yong's "Deceit" Series
ISBN
9787540756390

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Summary

Stopping Deceit with Deceit is a collection of essays on navigating life by Liu Yong, following his I'm Not Teaching You to Be Deceitful series and belonging with titles such as Love Without Deceit to the author's "Deceit" series. The book's premise is "stop war with war, fight poison with poison, stop deceit with deceit": it does not teach people to deceive but urges them to see clearly how deceit operates, so they are not used or led by the nose without knowing it—or even become unwitting accomplices. Drawing on a wealth of everyday and business examples, the author dissects the tricks of deceit one by one: how "old birds" in the workplace push out newcomers, how unscrupulous employees embezzle, how business intelligence is quietly carried away, how antique dealers and salespeople set verbal traps, how the sensitive and suspicious are provoked into action, and so on. He also brings seemingly trivial details into the analysis—leaving midway, tearing up documents, picking up a briefcase, addressing an envelope, changing seats, choosing jewelry—because these small gestures often determine who is cheated and who gets away with it. The book has fifteen chapters, each built around a specific topic, written in a sharp, blunt style that is more pointed than I'm Not Teaching You to Be Deceitful and more focused on the dark side of society. While exposing human weaknesses and the logic of the game, the author repeatedly reminds readers: understanding the rules is about holding the line, and taking a roundabout path is about preserving the possibility of change. The afterword expresses the wish that "war may bring peace, vaccines may bring health, and deceit may bring honesty and kindness." The book is especially valuable for young people with little worldly experience and is also suitable for professionals reviewing the finer points of getting along in the world.

Editor's review

刘墉的「诈系列」之所以长销,是因为它不满足于喊「人心险恶」的口号,而是把骗术拆成一步步可识别的动作。《以诈止诈》延续这一路数,把商场用间、对手排挤、罗织罪名、推销话术等案例写成小故事,再逐层翻出底牌:使诈者怎样用诈、在哪个环节得手、旁观者为何看不出来。读来像听一位走南闯北的长辈讲见闻,辛辣处让人脊背发凉,实用处又能立刻用上。 本书比《我不是教你诈》更不留情面,写的是社会全景中的阴暗角落;可贵的是作者始终没有滑向「厚黑学」。他的落点在于清醒:知道诈在哪里,才不会被诈裹挟;懂得迂回,才保得住想坚持的东西。书中关于撕文件、换座位、写信封等小节尤见功力,把「细节即分寸」讲得极透彻。 1998 年前后风行的处世读物今天读来略显旧,但人情世故的底层逻辑变化不大。对刚入职场、刚开始独立处理人际与金钱事务的读者,这是一本性价比很高的「防坑手册」;对老读者,则是一次对自身经验的系统整理。

Who it's for

A good fit for

  • 刚步入职场、不熟悉办公室规则与人心博弈的年轻人
  • 容易被推销话术、人情绑架牵着走的老实人
  • 喜欢用案例故事讲道理、不爱读理论书的读者
  • 读《我不是教你诈》后想继续深入的刘墉作品读者
  • 想教孩子辨别社会陷阱的家长与教师

Not a good fit for

  • 期待系统化心理学或法律防诈知识体系的读者
  • 反感以「世故」视角看世界、追求理想化叙事的读者
  • 希望获得具体报案、维权与法律操作指引的读者

Reading tips

  1. 按章节顺序读,每章读完先自己想一想「换作我会不会中招」再对照作者的拆解。
  2. 把书中的细节建议(如撕文件、换座位、写信封)挑几条真正用到日常,比通读一遍更有效。
  3. 与《我不是教你诈》系列对照阅读,可看出刘墉处世观从「识诈」到「防诈」的推进。
  4. 读后与信任的长辈或同事交流真实案例,警惕把书中的「迂回」误用为算计他人。

About the publisher

Lijiang Publishing House China · Founded in 1980

Lijiang Publishing House focuses on Chinese and foreign literature, humanities and social sciences, cultural life, and parent-child education, and is particularly known for translating and introducing foreign literature; its "Nobel Prize in Literature Laureates Series" has had a lasting influence on readers. Judging from the 193 books in the collection, the press publishes modern prose classics such as Lu Xun's Dawn Blossoms Plucked at Dusk, ancient poetry and Eastern philosophy texts including Qu Yuan's The Songs of Chu and the works of Xunzi, educational works such as De Amicis's Cuore, and philosophy titles such as The Origin and Goal of History. Its authors include well-known Chinese and foreign writers and scholars such as Lu Xun, Qu Yuan, Xunzi, Hu Dalei, and Xia Mianzun. Overall, the press balances the organization of classic texts with the introduction of foreign works, forming a publishing profile that gives equal weight to literature, philosophy, and education.

Contents

  1. Liu Yong's "Deceit" Series

FAQ

《以诈止诈》和《我不是教你诈》是什么关系?
本书是刘墉「诈系列」的后续作品,接续《我不是教你诈》。同属处世散文,但《以诈止诈》风格更辛辣、更聚焦社会阴暗面,重点从「识诈」推进到「防诈」。两书可以单独阅读,也可以配套读。
这本书是教人使诈吗?
不是。书名取「以战止战、以毒攻毒、以诈止诈」之意,目的是让人看清诈术的运作方式,避免在不知情中被利用或成为帮凶。作者在后记中表达的是愿「诈带来的是坦诚与善良」。
本书有哪些中文版本?该以哪个为准?
常见的有 2006 年接力出版社版(ISBN 9787807322429)、2012 年漓江出版社版(ISBN 9787540756390),另有台湾水云斋繁体版。各版本内容大体一致,以流传较广的漓江版为准。
书的目录有多少章?
全书正文共十五章,另有一篇前言《人在诈中不知诈》和一篇后记《在乱世迂回地前进》,每章围绕一个专门话题展开案例分析。
书中讲的是哪类骗局?
案例主要来自职场与商场:新老员工之间的排挤、职员贪渎、商业情报外泄、古董商与推销员的话术、人际激将等,多为日常生活中司空见惯却不易察觉的套路。

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About the author

Liu Yong Author · American · 1949

Liu Yong is a Chinese-American writer and painter. Born in Taipei in 1949, with ancestral roots in Beijing, he graduated from the Department of Fine Arts at National Taiwan Normal University and has worked as a journalist and as artist-in-residence at St. John's University in New York. He has long combined writing with painting and has taken part in public welfare work. His works are mainly essays and writings on personal growth and life experience. His prose is plain and approachable, often starting from everyday details to discuss self-improvement, social tact, and practical wisdom, and it has reached a wide Chinese-speaking readership. Five of his books are included in the collection, among them Firefly Window Whispers (new edition), Life Convenience Store, Liu Yong's Bestsellers: Three Books on Life (3 volumes), I'm Not Teaching You to Cheat, and The Hundred Taboos of Life, showing that his writing ranges from short essays to down-to-earth life guidance, delivered in a gentle, pragmatic style that conveys experience and reflection in accessible language.

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