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For Myself

Rating 3.7
Word count
79K words
Chapters
38
ISBN
9787566809490

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Summary

This is a young woman's debut, as fresh as the real you. Clean and crisp, it glows with newborn light amid the rough real world. No preface from a famous author, no publicity blitz, no book-signing tour—it simply rests quietly on the desk, its cover and illustrations original and clean, just like their creator. The volume is modest in size, almost like a book of poems; she says she hopes readers can pick it up and read it anytime, anywhere, then close it and slip it into a bag. It has been a long time since we saw such authenticity. It preaches no doctrines or life philosophies, and it never serves you chicken soup with a smile. Yet as you turn its pages, you will find that what she writes is the very life you are living. In the end, I want to bless all the imperfect ordinary people in this world—and fiercely embrace all the flawed beauty in it.

Editor's review

Giving to Oneself is an essay collection by Tong Ming, published by Jinan University Press in Guangzhou. Tong Ming is not a widely known public figure; his style is plain and restrained, focusing on delicate portrayals of daily life, personal emotions, and the inner world. The book has no grand narrative or thrilling plot; its core value lies in offering a quiet spiritual refuge, guiding readers toward gentle self-reflection and dialogue amid the fast pace of modern life. From an editor's professional perspective, its literary quality is evident in its sincere brushwork and precise capture of subtle emotions. It does not preach or offer solutions but, like a quiet friend, shares fragments of life about loneliness, memory, loss, and gain. Readers accustomed to deep reading and who savor the beauty of language itself will find ample space to linger; those seeking strong plot, fast pacing, or clear knowledge gains may find it somewhat flat. Overall, Giving to Oneself is a book to be savored in stillness; its reading value lies not in seeking outward but in exploring inward, helping readers rediscover and settle the self that may have been overlooked between the lines.

Who it's for

A good fit for

  • Readers seeking inner calm who like to reflect on themselves through reading
  • Essay lovers sensitive to life's details who can draw philosophical insight from ordinary things
  • People longing for a moment of spiritual rest in a busy life and seeking emotional resonance
  • Readers who appreciate a plain, sincere, unadorned literary style

Not a good fit for

  • Readers expecting strong story conflict and fast-paced narrative
  • Readers whose main purpose is to acquire practical skills or a clear knowledge system

Reading tips

  1. Read in quiet solitude; no need to rush—reading one or two pieces closely will better reveal its flavor.
  2. Try jotting down your reading responses as you go, interacting with the emotions and thoughts in the book.
  3. Don't chase a fast reading pace; treat it as a companionable slow-reading experience.

About the publisher

Jinan University Press China · Founded in 1989

Jinan University Press focuses on overseas Chinese studies, Chinese-language education, and language and literature, while also covering medicine, finance and economics, inspirational growth, and social fiction. Its catalog includes academic works such as the World Overseas Chinese Studies Library volume Forgetting Patriots: A Study of Nanyang Chinese Motor Transport Workers and Chinese Images in Chinese American English Narrative Texts, language-learning titles such as Graded Chinese Textbook for International Students: Grammar and The Fluent English Learning Method, and literary and inspirational works such as Traveling with a Poem, Summer's Handstand, and The Post-Shenzhen Era, while Molecular Diagnostic and Epidemiological Applications for Haemophilus parasuis reflects its reach into medicine. Authors include Dishui, Yang Haiming, Chen Huiyan, Lin Zi, Wang Shunjian, Zhu Bifeng, Xia Yuqing, and Zhan Qiao. As only 17 titles from the press are held here and public information is limited, this profile emphasizes the publishing directions reflected in those titles and does not represent the press's full output.

Contents

  1. 版权信息
  2. 自序
  3. 感觉
  4. 不如善良
  5. 微电影
  6. 食物的光辉
  7. 鸡零狗碎的日子
  8. 俗世初心
  9. 回忆的一部分
  10. 狗 狗
  11. 谁在老去
  12. 那些生 那些死
  13. 大话·呓语
  14. 思无邪
  15. 脚盆国的花火
  16. 乱谈一把
  17. 读书,只为遇见你
  18. 吃喝玩乐
  19. 我们的逆世界
  20. 读到的女人和独到的女人
  21. 我爱你是一首诗
  22. 婵 娟
  23. 活得美好
  24. 两封寄给未来的信
  25. 神 话
  26. 片段——病·初·散碎
  27. 文艺青年
  28. 他和她
  29. 此时岁 彼时观
  30. 巴黎漫记
  31. 诚意之品
  32. 侃侃知识和智慧
  33. 花开在途
  34. 谁能被谁温柔相待
  35. 狗娘养的战争
  36. 关于《东京日和》的泪
  37. 浅浅的艺术
  38. 陌上花开缓缓归

FAQ

What is the theme of this book?
The core theme is self-examination and dialogue, exploring personal inner experience and growth in daily life and emotional memory.
What is the author's writing style?
Tong Ming writes primarily in essays; his style is plain, introspective, and delicate, focusing on rendering fleeting impressions and subtle emotions with a personal lyrical quality.
Is this book suitable as a gift?
It suits close friends who value spiritual exchange, especially those going through a life transition or seeking inner peace.

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About the author

仝鸣 Author

Tong Ming is an author for whom only limited public information is currently available; details such as nationality, dates of birth and death, and educational background have not been clearly recorded. According to the holdings in our database, Tong Ming has only one work to date, titled Yu Ji (To Oneself), which is classified as prose and miscellaneous writings. This suggests that the author's writing is mainly in the form of prose essays, with content centered on the self, everyday life, and inner feelings. On the basis of the available information, it is difficult to judge the overall trajectory of Tong Ming's writing or the evolution of their style, and it would be inappropriate to overstate their literary standing. The title Yu Ji carries a sense of giving to oneself and of self-dialogue, hinting that the author tends toward an introspective, plain style of writing about personal experience, seeking genuine emotion and natural expression within the prose form. For readers who wish to learn about Tong Ming, this work is currently the main text available for reference, while a fuller picture of the author's life and writing awaits further public information.

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