Thirty-Seven
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Summary
At thirty-seven, I did not become a mother, nor anyone's wife—I am simply myself. Marriage has never been the inevitable path for mature women approaching the end of life's journey, yet love remains what they deliberately pursue through all obstacles.
The novel stays close to today's social reality and centers on the themes of women's independence, awakening, and entrepreneurship, reminding women that through their own efforts they too can hold up half the sky, realize their value, and live with a fuller sense of existence.
Editor's review
The book's reading value lies in its strong sense of contemporary resonance and psychological authenticity. The author offers no cheap solutions or romanticized turns, but faithfully presents an ordinary woman's confusion, compromise, and small acts of resistance at midlife. Its discussion of workplace gender bias, the distribution of family responsibilities, and the pressure of the social clock, though set in Japanese society, can evoke deep empathy in readers across regions. Kakuta excels at revealing the grand in the small: through a dinner, a bout of overtime, a marital conversation, she peels back layer by layer the warm facade of modern life to expose the structural contradictions and individual loneliness beneath.
Literarily, the narrative pace is steady and restrained, the psychological description dense and tense, and the language plain yet subtly sharp. It offers no euphoric gratification, but a precious sense of being understood—those unspeakable fatigues, reluctances, and persistences find a place to rest between the lines. For readers at a similar stage of life, this book may serve as a calm mirror or a silent ally.
Who it's for
A good fit for
- Readers in their 30s–40s undergoing life transitions and feeling confused about career, family, and self-worth
- Readers interested in contemporary women's issues who wish to understand women's circumstances across different cultural contexts
- Literary readers who appreciate nuanced psychological description and narratives of everyday life
- Individuals currently experiencing or reflecting on intimate relationships such as marriage and parent-child relations
Not a good fit for
- Readers seeking light entertainment or strong plot conflict
- Readers expecting a clear life guide or success-oriented solutions
Reading tips
- Read in a relatively quiet environment conducive to immersive reflection; the book's extensive inner monologue requires patient savoring
- Read alongside other works by Kakuta Mitsuyo (such as The Other Side and Paper Moon) to understand the author's creative trajectory
- Pause to reflect during reading and compare the book's situations with your own experience, but do not force a one-to-one identification
About the publisher
Founded in 1987, Qingdao Publishing House has long focused on education, science and technology, children's books, and lifestyle titles, while steadily publishing classical and foreign literature. Its 827 titles in the catalog reflect a balance between making classics widely accessible and serving young readers. They include the four great classics of Chinese literature—Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Water Margin, Dream of the Red Chamber, and Journey to the West—as well as foreign literary translations such as Sei Shōnagon's The Pillow Book, works associated with Zhou Zuoren, and Victor Hugo's Les Misérables. The press also offers a color-illustrated series of recommended classics for primary and secondary school Chinese curriculum reading, using pictures and text to support student readers. Its common categories cover classical literature, essays and miscellaneous writings, folk literature, and foreign literature, with authors including Luo Guanzhong, Shi Nai'an, Cao Xueqin, Gao E, Wu Cheng'en, Sei Shōnagon, Zhou Zuoren, and Victor Hugo. Public information is limited, so this profile emphasizes the publishing directions shown by the catalog.
Contents
- 版权信息
- 译序 现实而尴尬的三十七岁
- 母亲的自制蛋糕
- 月亮与手帕
- 微暗剪影
- 我的自制蛋糕
- 记忆的绘本
- 婚礼蛋糕
- 夜空星辰窗里灯
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About the author
Mitsuyo Kakuta is a Japanese novelist and translator, born in 1967 in Yokohama, Kanagawa Prefecture, and a graduate of Waseda University's School of Letters, Arts and Sciences. She made her debut in 1990 with The Game of Happiness, which won the Kaien Newcomer Literature Award, and received the Naoki Prize in 2005 for Her on the Other Shore. Her work focuses largely on the struggles of contemporary women and on family relationships, told with delicate prose that reveals her characters' inner conflicts and struggles within everyday settings. The collection includes 13 of her works, such as The Invisible Woman (6 volumes), Air Garden, Her on the Other Shore, The Silent Garden, The House on the Slope, Night Flight, Talent (2 volumes), and What Is Love, spanning foreign literature, social fiction, and youth literature. Her acclaimed works The Eighth Day's Cicada and Paper Moon have also drawn wide attention.
Hou Wei is a translator and author credited by name in Chinese book records, though reliable public information about his life is limited: his nationality, dates of birth and death, and educational background are not documented. Judging from the thirteen titles listed in the database, his work centers on translating Japanese literature. His representative translations include Toyoko Yamasaki's The Great White Tower and her trilogy dissecting the dark side of reality, as well as Yasunari Kawabata's Snow Country, The Master of Go, Thousand Cranes, and The Dancing Girl, along with The Evil Sect and In a Grove and Talent. These works fall mainly under foreign literature and social fiction, with some essays and miscellaneous writings. Their themes range from the medical system and journalistic ethics to family fate and the subtleties of human nature, reflecting a sustained engagement with long-form narrative and socially critical texts. His translations are known for staying close to the originals and preserving their narrative rhythm, offering Chinese readers fairly complete access to modern and contemporary Japanese fiction.
