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Etiquette

Rating 4.0
Word count
1.2M words
Chapters
118

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Summary

Project Gutenberg was the first provider of free electronic books, or eBooks. Michael Hart, founder of Project Gutenberg, invented eBooks in 1971 and his memory continues to inspire the creation of eBooks and related technologies today.Etiquette by Emily PostAuthor: Post, Emily, 1873-1960,Language: English, Class: BJ: Philosophy, Psychology, Religion: Ethics, Social usages, Etiquette, Religion, Release Date: Dec 10, 2004

Editor's review

Emily Post's Etiquette is one of the most widely influential American etiquette books of the twentieth century, here in a public-domain electronic edition. Its value lies not in cataloguing rigid rules but in restoring etiquette to consideration and tact in everyday dealings: how to introduce people, how to receive guests, how to write letters, how to behave in public. The contents bear strong marks of their time, and some specific practices no longer apply today, yet the principles behind them—respecting others, sparing them embarrassment, staying self-aware in company—remain instructive. Read it as a source on social custom, observing how the American upper middle class of the early twentieth century interacted and what it valued, while selecting what still transfers to modern life. For readers interested in social norms, cultural history, or writing material, the book offers rich detail.

Who it's for

A good fit for

  • Readers interested in the principles of social etiquette who want to understand the logic behind good manners
  • Readers studying twentieth-century American social customs and cultural history
  • Writers seeking material who want to learn period manners and phrasing
  • Advanced English learners who want to practice reading through the topic of etiquette

Not a good fit for

  • Readers looking for a modern social guide they can follow directly
  • Practical readers who expect concise, checklist-style etiquette rules
  • Readers with little patience for outdated norms and their obvious limitations

Reading tips

  1. Read with a historical eye, distinguishing specific practices from the principles of respect behind them
  2. Skip around by topic—introductions, receiving guests, correspondence—rather than reading straight through
  3. Mark entries that still apply today as you read, building your own modern etiquette list
  4. In English, note period phrasing and letter formats as material for language and culture study

About the publisher

Project Gutenberg United States · Founded in 1971

Project Gutenberg is a digital publishing project focused on public-domain ebooks. Its publishing direction centers on classic literary works whose copyright has expired, covering genres such as poetry, drama, fiction, and epic. Representative books include Lyrical Ballads by Wordsworth and Coleridge, Proust's Du côté de chez Swann, Shakespeare's Macbeth and The Complete Works of William Shakespeare, Homer's The Iliad, Dante's La Divina Comèdia: Purgatòri, Cervantes's The History of Don Quixote, Volume 2, and Grahame's The Wind in the Willows. Its author resources consist mainly of classic Western writers such as Wordsworth, Proust, Shakespeare, Homer, Dante, Cervantes, Grahame, and Tolstoy. Its publishing feature is the provision of freely accessible ebooks in EPUB and Kindle formats; it is not a traditional publisher, and publicly available information is limited.

Contents

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FAQ

Do the etiquette rules in this book still apply today?
Some specific practices have changed with the times and should not be copied directly. But the principles the book stresses—consideration for others, sparing embarrassment, self-awareness in company—remain valuable. Separate the specific rules from the underlying principles and take what is useful.
Is this book suitable as a modern social guide?
Not really. It reflects the social habits of early twentieth-century America, and many situations and norms differ markedly from today. For modern social advice, consult contemporary works; this book is better read as cultural history or for its underlying principles.
What English level do I need to read this book?
The sentences are long and the topics involve social situations and letter formats, with vocabulary that has a period flavor. It suits readers at intermediate level or above who are willing to work patiently through long sentences; beginners might start with shorter chapters.

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About the author

Emily Post (1873–1960) was an American author best known for her writing on etiquette. Two of her works are held in this collection: Etiquette and The Title Market. Public information about her is limited, and details of her life fall outside the scope of this introduction. Her works address everyday life and social situations, explaining proper conduct through concrete examples. Etiquette deals with manners and social behavior in clear, practical language suited to ordinary readers. Such writing brought etiquette out of private circles and made it a public resource for ordinary households, leaving a lasting influence on the spread of American social customs in the twentieth century. The Title Market shows that she also wrote fiction. Her writing is marked by clear rules and specific examples, and remains a useful reference for understanding the social norms of her time.

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